I'm listening to: Simply Red - Stars

Because I'm in such a frivolous mood, thanks to the magic of endorphins, I'm not going to mind sounding like a complete airhead in this post. I'll talk about my ideal boyfriend (MIBF). We'll work from the outside in.

Vibe/Aura
This is a picture of Gaspard Ulliel of Hannibal Rising/Paris Je t'Aime/etc. fame. I don't expect to ever know anyone with his drop-dead gorgeous boyish good looks, but MIBF should possess the same subtle(?) bookish vibe in combination with an aura of cool - not biker/rocker cool but collected+intelligent+witty cool.

Physique
MIBF should be tall (at the very least 175cm) and muscular but not bulky. I like broad shoulders and a healthy tan, and would very much like him to do at least one kind of exercise/sport regularly. He dresses simply but looks good anyway =)

Face/Hair
Chiselled bone structure, high cheekbones, buttchin, expressive eyes and nice smile! NO FACIAL HAIR. Again with reference to lovely Gaspard Ulliel, I have a thing for dark-coloured plastic/acrylic glasses, which should be paired with a basic haircut. (On a separate note, I think glasses like that are great but only with complementary facial features. Some people just look better without them.)

Preferences/Hobbies
MIBF appreciates nature and likes taking long walks while admiring scenery. He should play at least one kind of video/computer game without going into excess, in addition to exercise/sports as abovementioned. He plays a musical instrument like the guitar or something, and is very into cool music - alternative, indie++ at least. For his intellectual pursuits, he would be happy spending the day with a good book and coffee, but also enjoys the occasional party. He likes a wide variety of good food and will happily(?) eat what I cook.

Personality
Humourously witty, MIBF will be able to keep me laughing. He enjoys intelligent philosophical discussions with me and is honest with his thoughts and feelings while also broad-minded. He is patient, dependable, sensitive to how other people feel and generally friendly and soft-hearted without being a pushover. MIBF has strong values and understands the importance of harmony and compromise. With an independent, adventurous spirit and enthusiasm for novel experiences, he is spontaneous and fun-loving. Preferably of the same religion, but no big matter. He is romantic but not cheesy and against OTT PDA but still a warm and fuzzy person.


Besides a strong connection and MIBF liking me too, putting it simply would be that he probably doesn't exist (or at least right now to me, I think), even give or take a few things. So much for MIBF! =(



We'll take tomorrow, baby, yeah
One day at a time.